Let me tell you, folks, ministry can be a wild ride, and it’s not just the person in the pulpit who feels it. The spouse? They’re right there in the trenches too. Debbie and I have weathered our fair share of storms, and I want to share some hard-earned wisdom on supporting your spouse in ministry.
First things first: Communication is key. I learned this the hard way when I was so caught up in selling insurance that I forgot to call home. Trust me, you don’t want to come home to a dark house and missing wife. Talk to each other, really listen, and make sure you’re on the same page.
Next, pray together. I mean really pray. When Debbie and I faced the loss of her parents, it was our shared faith that got us through. Prayer connects you not just to God, but to each other.
Remember, you’re a team. Ministry isn’t a solo sport. When I was chairing the church board, Debbie’s insights were invaluable. Your spouse has a unique perspective – treasure it.
Create boundaries. Ministry can be all-consuming if you let it. Set aside time for just the two of you. Those date nights George Burke suggested. Game changers.
Lastly, be each other’s safe space. Ministry can be lonely. Be the person your spouse can be real with, no judgment.
Supporting your spouse in ministry isn’t always easy, but it’s worth it. Together, you can weather any storm that comes your way.