Let me tell you, balancing family and ministry is no small feat. I’ve made my fair share of mistakes in this arena, but I’ve learned some valuable lessons along the way.
First off, your family is your first ministry. I had to learn this the hard way when I was so caught up in Heads Up Inc. that I neglected Debbie and the boys. Don’t make the same mistake I did.
Set clear boundaries. When you’re home, be home. Put the phone away, be present. Those moments with your kids and spouse? They’re precious and fleeting.
Involve your family in your ministry when appropriate. Some of our best memories at Standing Stone were when we served together as a family.
Prioritize your marriage. Remember those date nights Debbie and I started? They were crucial. Your spouse needs to know they’re more important than your ministry.
Be intentional about creating family traditions. Our camping trips and FAST (Father And Son Team) fishing tournaments became cornerstones of our family life.
Remember, your kids are watching. They’ll learn more from how you live than what you preach. Model the balance you want them to have in their own lives.
Lastly, give yourself grace. You won’t always get it right, and that’s okay. The important thing is to keep trying, keep communicating, and keep putting your family first.
Remember, God gave you your family before He gave you your ministry. Honor Him by honoring them.