Learning to Rest in a Do-More Culture
Can we get real about rest? Not the “I’ll sleep when I’m dead” kind of rest, but true, God-ordained, soul-refreshing rest. I used to wear my busyness like a badge of honor. Running multiple businesses, juggling family life, trying to be everywhere for everyone. Sound familiar? It wasn’t until I earned the nickname “THREE-NAPS” during […]
When God Interrupts Your Plans
Let’s talk about divine interruptions. You know, those moments when God completely derails your carefully planned life? I’ve got a few stories about that, and I bet you do too. I had it all figured out – successful business ventures, a clear path ahead. Then God threw a holy wrench in my plans. The market […]
The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing in Ministry
Folks, can we have an honest conversation about people-pleasing? I spent years trying to make everyone happy – in business, in ministry, even at home. Let me tell you, it’s a burden that’ll wear you down faster than a marathon runner in flip-flops. Remember when I was running the Sextant Restaurant? I tried to be […]
Healing from Past Wounds: My Journey to Forgiveness and Freedom
Friends, let’s get real for a moment. We all carry wounds from our past, and if we’re not careful, they can hold us back from all God has for us. I want to share a bit about my journey to healing and forgiveness, particularly regarding my relationship with my father. Growing up with an alcoholic […]
The Entrepreneur’s Guide to Kingdom Impact
Alright, my fellow entrepreneurs, let’s talk about how we can use our business savvy for Kingdom impact. Trust me, God can use your entrepreneurial skills in mighty ways. First off, remember that your business is a mission field. Whether you’re selling toilets like I did with Heads Up Inc., or providing any other product or […]
Embracing Change: Lessons from Transitioning Ministry Leadership
Change is never easy, especially when it comes to transitioning leadership in a ministry you’ve poured your heart and soul into. But let me tell you, it’s necessary for growth and long-term impact. When Debbie and I started thinking about transitioning leadership at Standing Stone, it was a mix of emotions. Excitement for the future, […]
The Transformative Power of Retreats for Ministry Leaders
Friends, let me tell you about the magic that happens when ministry leaders step away from the daily grind and come to a retreat. It’s like watching a wilted plant come back to life with some water and sunlight. At Standing Stone, we’ve seen countless leaders arrive exhausted, stressed, and sometimes on the brink of […]
Balancing Family and Ministry: Lessons from the Trenches
Let me tell you, balancing family and ministry is no small feat. I’ve made my fair share of mistakes in this arena, but I’ve learned some valuable lessons along the way. First off, your family is your first ministry. I had to learn this the hard way when I was so caught up in Heads […]
Finding Your True Calling: Discerning God’s Purpose for Your Life
Let me tell you, friends, finding your true calling isn’t always a straightforward path. I spent years chasing success in business before I realized what God really wanted me to BE. First things first: your calling isn’t just about what you DO. It’s about who you ARE. Remember, we’re human BEings, not human DOings. Start […]
The Role of Vulnerability in Authentic Christian Leadership
Folks, let’s talk about something that doesn’t get enough attention in Christian leadership: vulnerability. For years, I thought being a leader meant having all the answers, never showing weakness. Boy, was I wrong. True leadership, especially Christian leadership, requires vulnerability. It’s about being real, admitting when you don’t have it all figured out, and letting […]